If you're not into it don't do it. You'll just be jealous and resent them both.
Being someone's best friend is a kind of love, dude. Not everbody's meant for one-on-one relationships. We're way more variable than that. People I mean. I was just trying to help, but seriously Kon... do not do it if you don't want to.
That's what I'm afraid of. But I'm already jealous. She's in love with Tim. At least this way I wouldn't need to worry about them cheating or something like that. Cause, well, I'd be there.
I know that, man. And yeah, I love Tim, sure, but if we're going like that I also love you. I don't really want to date either of you. I don't know. I said I'd talk to Tim. There's no way he'd say yes anyway, so whatever, no problem. I just want Cassie to be happy, and if this is what she wants, I can try it.
I'm just saying, I dunno. Romantic love develops from friend love sometimes. NOT ALL TIMES. But sometimes. And, yeah, his head will probably explode. But what are you going to do if he says yes? Or, y'know, even if he says no?
That's the thing. I don't think it's about sharing. I think it's about all being together. But... what do I know? I can't even handle one girl.
Kon... it doesn't seem like you think it's right for you. Don't jeopardize your friendship with Tim over this. Or your relationship with Cassie. I'm sorry I even suggested it.
Her loving Tim doesn't mean she loves you any less, dude.
Yeah! Except for the one where I like girls! And a specific girl! So if Tim could, like. Morph into Tabby, that's be awesome and I would so date him. Otherwise, no. :P
Yeah, but you should want you to be happy too, Kon. I think he does.
I do want me to be happy. I also know that the whole happy thing is harder for him than me. And... maybe I could be happy like this?
Well, we'll talk to Tim. I don't know. This is a mess, Bart. I don't want to be jealous. I don't want to be mad at Tim or Cassie. I just want everything to be good.
I'm sorry, dude. I'm sorry because I feel like, I dunno. Maybe if I hadn't said anything... but I guess it would have happened eventually. I don't want my friends' lives to be a mess, you know? Let me be a mess, you guys should be happy.
Okay, first of all, don't blame yourself. Seriously. Second of all, you shouldn't be a mess either. I want you to be happy too. Agh. This relationship stuff sucks.
Yeah, but I'm not going to be happy for a little while. It's okay. I mean, I'm day-to-day happy. I just have to figure everything out, and hope Mia talks to me sometime, and let Tabby figure everything out, and wait for the inevitable day when she gets back with Sam and tells me I'm just a really great friend and she doesn't want to ruin that. Blech.
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No?
I dunno, it sort of seemed like a good idea when I was suggesting it.
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You do know that I'm not in love with Tim or anything, right? He's my best friend.
I don't know what to do.no subject
Being someone's best friend is a kind of love, dude. Not everbody's meant for one-on-one relationships. We're way more variable than that. People I mean. I was just trying to help, but seriously Kon... do not do it if you don't want to.
What's your first reaction?no subject
I know that, man. And yeah, I love Tim, sure, but if we're going like that I also love you. I don't really want to date either of you. I don't know. I said I'd talk to Tim. There's no way he'd say yes anyway, so whatever, no problem. I just want Cassie to be happy, and if this is what she wants, I can try it.
I thought she was joking.no subject
I'm just saying, I dunno. Romantic love develops from friend love sometimes. NOT ALL TIMES. But sometimes. And, yeah, his head will probably explode. But what are you going to do if he says yes? Or, y'know, even if he says no?
Okay, so what was your second reaction?no subject
Yeah, I know that too. And I have no idea. Just gonna... I don't know. See what happens.
Jealousy, I guess. And hurt. But then she looked so sad and I hate that.no subject
Kon... it doesn't seem like you think it's right for you. Don't jeopardize your friendship with Tim over this. Or your relationship with Cassie. I'm sorry I even suggested it.
Her loving Tim doesn't mean she loves you any less, dude.no subject
No... it's okay. I also want him to be happy, I mean. Does he love her too?
I know that. Doesn't change the fact that my girl is in love with my best friend.no subject
Yeah, but you should want you to be happy too, Kon. I think he does.
I know. I'm sorry.no subject
I do want me to be happy. I also know that the whole happy thing is harder for him than me. And... maybe I could be happy like this?
Well, we'll talk to Tim. I don't know. This is a mess, Bart. I don't want to be jealous. I don't want to be mad at Tim or Cassie. I just want everything to be good.
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What happens if you can't?
I'm sorry, dude. I'm sorry because I feel like, I dunno. Maybe if I hadn't said anything... but I guess it would have happened eventually. I don't want my friends' lives to be a mess, you know? Let me be a mess, you guys should be happy.
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Okay, first of all, don't blame yourself. Seriously. Second of all, you shouldn't be a mess either. I want you to be happy too. Agh. This relationship stuff sucks.
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Yeah, but I'm not going to be happy for a little while. It's okay. I mean, I'm day-to-day happy. I just have to figure everything out, and hope Mia talks to me sometime, and let Tabby figure everything out, and wait for the inevitable day when she gets back with Sam and tells me I'm just a really great friend and she doesn't want to ruin that. Blech.
Um, but enough about me. I'm okay, dude.
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Wanna run over here and hang out? I've got pie.
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But... pie is okay with me.
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See you in a second?
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